Why does everyone want to have orgasms?
Because it is very nice? Of course! … But why do we feel exhausted at the end? Because no matter how happy we are during the common act of intercourse with ejaculation, we all become sad and exhausted afterwards…
What if instead of living this orgasmic happiness for 1 minute we could extend it to 30 minutes or several hours?
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One day, I received an email from website: I have a problem keeping an erection. Will tantric massage help?
First of all it’s great when men ask questions like this. Too many men suffer in silence with this problem. Unnecessarily. It can be devastating on a man’s feeling of self-worth and wreak havoc on a couple’s sex life. Speaking about it openly is the first step to sorting it out.
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During a fascinating conversation with one of our regular clients about sex and sexism in the massage business, Rob (not his real name) made an interesting observation.
Rob observed that although he thoroughly enjoyed massages from women his best massages had always been from men and he couldn’t understand why it seemed more difficult to find professional, reliable male therapists. Rob added that it wasn’t anything sexual he wanted from his massages. He simply preferred the greater and more sustained pressure men were able to apply during a 60 or 90 minute session.
Continue reading You, Sex and Sexism – the politics of massage
Tantra literally means a tool for expansion. In spite of the Eastern terminology, Tantra is an easy concept to grasp. At it’s heart is the knowledge that a powerful current of energy flows through us all, which needs to be harmonised.
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Tantric massage may be a bit of a mystery to you, but that is no reason to ignore it. You could be missing out on an amazing experience. But isn’t tantric massage all about sex? Well, no actually. It’s all about developing close relationships with ourselves, our partners and an energy in the universe. Sexual energy is one of the most potent energies that can open gateways to altered consciousness. It’s also a pretty good way to enjoy intimacy with a partner. And you get a massage thrown in for free – bet that got your attention!
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Dear readers, today we invited Mia, a tantric massage goddess from London to talk about a sensitive topic “See an escort or a Tantric masseuse?”
In line with other recent posts I like to bring up a new subject that I guess will start a nice discussion here on the blog.
The question I like to put forward is this: what are the pros and cons of seeing a Tantric masseuse versus seeing an escort? First of all I am very non judgmental. So whatever your reasons are it doesn’t matter to me.
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Hi everybody! I’m honored that Pete from Tantric Massage Guide could offer me this chance to post some of my opinions about tantric massage, as a massage provider. Feel free to ask me questions.
This post will address a difficult and sensitive question. It is an issue that I often come across in my work as a tantric therapist. That is why I have decided to discuss it here in a blog post and ask for your response.
Many of my clients, either regulars or clients who I just see once, are in a relationship. And that leads to the big question: Is going for a tantric massage cheating on your partner or not?
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A interesting Article by ARIANNE COHEN, a journalist from the Daily beast. She shared her 1st experience of Tantric yoni massage.. with a man. Please read on:
The Kilted Massage Man is here to make those of you born with a Yoni a very special offer. If you have never had a Yoni Massage I will teach you the art of slow, deep-breathing. Be prepared to take some time.
The ad went on like that for a full page, in perfect grammar, explaining the basics of tantra, the verbiage obviously tweaked to perfection over years on Craigslist. I skimmed quickly and fired off a response. Dear Yoni. Your Craigslist ad caught my eye.
Continue reading The Last Tantric Massage
Now this is about my personal views on Tantra and how I became interested in it as something to learn more about.
I became single a few years ago and realised that at 40 I knew nothing about women and dating and much of my life had been influenced by a Catholic upbringing and the limited knowledge of my parents and school. I found out for myself the hard way that perhaps everything I thought worked in meeting and building relationships that made logical sense just didn’t work. I realised that I had to change myself and my views and take on some new thinking as I was hitting a proverbial brick wall and the harder I tried what should work, the worse it got. Continue reading My journey into Tantra
The word Tantra means “to manifest, to expand, to show and to weave”. In this context, sex is thought to expand consciousness and to weave together the polarities of male (represented by the Hindu god, Shiva), and female (embodied by the Hindu goddess, Shakti), into a harmonious whole.
Although Tantra has long been practised in many eastern cultures, it is just beginning to flourish in the west. Born in India more than 6,000 years ago, tantra emerged as a rebellion against organised religion, which held that sexuality should be rejected in order to reach enlightenment. In its most authentic form, tantra prohibits male ejaculation as the sole objective of the man’s sexual experience. It believes that preoccupation with ejaculation (which many of us men are surely guilty of) wastes sexual energy and robs the woman of her potential for multiple orgasms. However, women may ( and are encouraged to) ejaculate through tantric techniques.
Couples need not adopt the Tantric pantheon in order to benefit from the sexual wisdom of this ancient art. Tantric sexual practices teach us to prolong the act of making love and to utilize potent orgasmic energies more effectively.
How is tantric sex done? The following will show how sex for both can be more than average, and less than selfish.
Continue reading Tantric Sex – A beginner’s guide & Recommended reading list