Tantric Sex Technique #1 : Eye-Gazing

If you’re new to tantric sex and don’t really know where to begin, the following Tantric Sex Technique will add a whole new dimension to your lovemaking.

Tantric Sex Technique #1: Eye-Gazing

People need to connect intimately to have great sex. Whether you have been in a relationship for many years and feel like you’ve lost some of that intimacy you once shared or you’re in a new relationship and want to take it to the next level, eye-gazing will allow you to instantly connect heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul.

Eye gazing

Eye gazing

To practice Eye-Gazing or Soul-Gazing, stand and face your partner. Place your left hand over your lover’s right hand and your right over their left. Begin to breathe in synchrony with one another. On the inhale, slowly and with unconscious movement, allow your hands to gently rise…then descend as you exhale.

Softly gaze into your lover’s left eye, as he or she gazes into yours. In the Celtic tradition, it is said that the left-eye is the gateway to soul, that connect us with our “Anam Kara” or “friend of the soul”. Sometimes, when eye-gazing people may notice their partner’s face changing into that of an older or younger person. Sometimes an animal will appear. Embrace whatever you see, free of any judgment. Send unconditional love, imagining a white or pink light enveloping your lover. Many people believe that the eyes can reveal information about our past-lives. Whatever your beliefs are, enjoy this special time with your parnter as you connect…two souls into one.

You can also practice soul-gazing during sex. The best sex position to practice this tantric technique is in the Yab Yum position. This is a common tantric sex position, where couples face each other, with the woman sitting on the man’s lap. This allows for better movement of sexual energy and connects the chakras between partners.

While many people enjoy the feeling of being connected to their lover, after sex, it’s important to eventually take back your energy cords. In other words, you want to be running your energy and not someone else’s, unless of course you just want to spend the day basking in sensual ecstasy…

eye gazing before and after sex

eye gazing before and after sex

I like to keep my heart chakra connected to my lover throughout the day, because we can send each other energy at a distance, but for the most part, if you’re practicing an exercise as intense as soul-gazing, you will feel more like “yourself” if you take back your cords and send your partner’s their own. You can always reconnect at a later time.

So, to conclude the soul-gazing session, whether you practice it before or after sex, close your eyes and place your right hand over your heart, with your left hand on top. Inhale deeply into the stomach, focusing on a spot, 2 inches below the navel. On the exhale, focus on your crown chakra, at the top of your head.

On the fourth exhale, gently open your eyes, look at your partner and notice how the connection has changed. Thank your partner for opening up their heart and soul to you.

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