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My journey into Tantra

Now this is about my personal views on Tantra and how I became interested in it as something to learn more about.

I became single a few years ago and realised that at 40 I knew nothing about women and dating and much of my life had been influenced by a Catholic upbringing and the limited knowledge of my parents and school. I found out for myself the hard way that perhaps everything I thought worked in meeting and building relationships that made logical sense just didn’t work. I realised that I had to change myself and my views and take on some new thinking as I was hitting a proverbial brick wall and the harder I tried what should work, the worse it got. Continue reading My journey into Tantra

Tantric Sex – A beginner’s guide & Recommended reading list

The word Tantra means “to manifest, to expand, to show and to weave”. In this context, sex is thought to expand consciousness and to weave together the polarities of male (represented by the Hindu god, Shiva), and female (embodied by the Hindu goddess, Shakti), into a harmonious whole.

Although Tantra has long been practised in many eastern cultures, it is just beginning to flourish in the west. Born in India more than 6,000 years ago, tantra emerged as a rebellion against organised religion, which held that sexuality should be rejected in order to reach enlightenment. In its most authentic form, tantra prohibits male ejaculation as the sole objective of the man’s sexual experience. It believes that preoccupation with ejaculation (which many of us men are surely guilty of) wastes sexual energy and robs the woman of her potential for multiple orgasms. However, women may ( and are encouraged to) ejaculate through tantric techniques.

Couples need not adopt the Tantric pantheon in order to benefit from the sexual wisdom of this ancient art. Tantric sexual practices teach us to prolong the act of making love and to utilize potent orgasmic energies more effectively.

How is tantric sex done? The following will show how sex for both can be more than average, and less than selfish.

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Insider: What to expect when you book a Tantric massage at London

Editor: this is an article posted by Rachel, a Tantric massage therapist, practicer and business owner.

Candles and stones in a calm zen spa environment.

Tantric massage Therapy is a special massage that arouses your spiritual life force while soothing your body and senses. It is a celebration of your whole being and will encourage you to completely relax, and will help you to master your sexual skills.

During a tantric massage therapy session, I work with the chakras, which are the energy centres of the body, and which ideally should be balanced. However, the reason why many of my clients come to me for tantric massage is that there is an imbalance in these energy centres, which means that not all the chakras are working at the same level.

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Introduction to The Tantra Chakra System

Chakra is a very important element when you learning and experiencing tantra. Today I want share with you my knowledge about 7 Chakras, what is Chakas, Locations and the Chakra symbols.

Tantra is a practice that cultivates awareness of our oneness with existence through sexual awakening. This happens through the opening of the chakras or energy centres in the body. Typically in sexual encounter, we send our sexual energy outwards. We may experience deep bliss for a while, but generally this does not last. With Tantric awareness, our sexual vitality starts to move up our bodies like a snake that uncoils, from the root or base of the body all the way up through the crown. Sexual energy moves from the first chakra up. This process is often known at the Uncoiling of the Snake (sexual energy or kundalini).

What is Chakra?

The chakra is an energetic center within the auric and physical body of human. Chakras are also referred to as ‘acupoint’, and serve as the nonphysical highway through which cosmic energy travels, connecting this energy with the physical body. This cosmical energy is what we call Life Force or Prana. Although there are over 100 chakras total in the body (according to the tantric texts – and there is still debate about the exact number), there are only seven that are considered major. These seven align with specific, vertically stacked key points along the central line from of the human body, and are the main centers that yogis and energy workers tend to focus in on.

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Tantric Masseuse Offers Her Take On Sexual Healing

According to Candy, who works as a tantric masseuse, it’s important to have positive sexual energy – not just for the person getting the massage but for everybody around them.

Candy is known to her friends as the sexual doula. She lives in a West Village apartment that also serves as her workplace. Candy has a psychology degree but works as a tantric masseuse, which allows her to help people attain their ability to experience the sense of pleasure fully.

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Western Tantra vs Eastern Tantra from the v perspective

Tantric massage in modern world from the perspective of an erotic masseuse.

Hi guys, there is an article I want to share with you,  this article is originally post at Eros Massage, by Anna – an erotic masseuse in London, UK. It contents some flaws but it brings an objective perspective to talk about the tantra massage in modern world, especially when there are so many misunderstandings and argument across internet.

Tantric massage in modern world from the perspective of an erotic masseuse

Tantra concept and Tantric traditional massage techniques should be adapted to the needs of the clienteles in cities as London.

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Tantra & Sexual Energy

We are energy…

Just like everything else in the universe a human being is energy. At the smallest level the tiniest waves of energy make matter (the physical body) and living activity within it (mental, emotional and spiritual).

Even a brick has a highly organised energetic structure that holds the atoms together and gives it its physical qualities. Naturally, the human energy system is also extremely organised and complex, with a whole spectrum of different frequencies interacting in different processes, from the lifecourse-taking psychic energy of Karl Jung to the basic maintenance lifeforce of chi.

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What Does a Man Get From a Tantric Massage?

By giving his woman Tantric massage, a man can achieve what men almost never achieve even if they are skilled at all the female sitmulation tricks these days. Woman’s sexuality needs relaxation and gradual whole body expansion of arousal and that almost never happens. There is nothing out there that can compare with a well-performed Tantric massage to get a woman to relax to you completely, to arouse her completely, to open her heart to you, and to open her maximum sexual potential, including her capacity for orgasms and frequent love-making. A Tantric massage is simply the best thing you could do for a woman.

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Guide to Tantric Yoni Massage

Within every female stirs the spirit of a Goddess, desire to be free, set to explore the hot mysteries of the world. If she is adventurous enough to follow this search, a woman will acquire to comprehend and to accept herself to deliver to previously unacknowledged passions. She will receive a broad gamut of sensations, from gently soothing to compelling. Within our advance humanity, she will be worthy, and the Goddess now is asleep within, will be awakened. That is why tantric yoni massage is also known as “Goddess worship”.

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Sensual Massage: The Health Risks

It’s liberating and sensual when you get a sensual massage as it releases all your tensions and stress. A naked massage is the ultimate in relaxation and freedom and it just can’t be beat. You experience pure bliss as the music plays and the candlelight glows. You’ll enjoy peace of mind as your experienced masseuse uses her massage skills to pamper you with her oiled and nude body. Despite the fact that a sensual massage is very liberating there are some risks you need to be aware of with sensual massage.

a nude sensual massage

Introduction:

In a relationship, you can build up intimacy with sensual massage. When it’s done correctly, it can enhance sexual arousal, but it also provides you the same benefits as regular massage such as stress relief, muscle relaxation, and more blood flow. Sensual massage is done between consensual couples and it’s not performed by massage therapists. A professional massage therapist practices techniques that are therapeutic, not sensual. Here are some health risks you need to know before you perform any sensual massage.

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