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Guide to Prostate massage

Prostate massage is a therapeutic technique that involves the gentle stimulation of the prostate gland, which is a walnut-sized organ located just below the bladder in men. The prostate plays a crucial role in the male reproductive system, producing fluids that nourish and transport sperm.

Prostate massage can be performed both externally and internally. External massage involves applying pressure to the perineum, the area between the scrotum and the anus. Internal massage involves inserting a finger or a specialized tool into the rectum to reach the prostate gland. The goal of the massage is to promote prostate health, alleviate symptoms of certain prostate-related conditions, and potentially enhance sexual pleasure. Read more

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What it feels like to have a lingam massage…

This is the true story of a man drawn to the allure of the city’s renowned tantric massage services. Little did he know that what awaited him was far more than just a lingam massage; it was an encounter that would transcend the physical and open the doors to the realm of the soul…

I was on a business trip to London, drawn by the tantalizing tales of its extraordinary massage services. The city whispered promises of sensuality and transcendence, and I, the eager traveler, set out in search of the perfect sensual massage experience.

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How would tantric massage help your business

How Tantric Massage can Help with your business

In the fast-paced and demanding world of business, maintaining a healthy work-life balance can be an ongoing struggle. The pressures of meeting deadlines, making critical decisions, and managing relationships with clients and colleagues can take a toll on mental and physical well-being. According to the American Institute of Stress, around 83% of US workers suffer from work-related stress, resulting in decreased productivity and increased absenteeism. In such a challenging environment, finding effective ways to cope with stress and pressure becomes essential for success. Read more

Communication with your partner is the way to better love

How to talk to your partner about…

“Sex is more than an act of pleasure… it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them.”

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: Communication is the best sexual technique a man can have. Once you’ve learned how to talk with your partner and truly listen to what she says, you’re well on your way to enriching your sex life and helping her experience powerful orgasms during sex.

Some subjects, though, can be difficult to broach, especially when there’s the potential for embarrassment, confusion or hurt feelings, as is often the case when a couple tries to discuss the sexual aspects of their relationship. But you’ll find that if you approach these subjects tactfully and with sensitivity, you and your partner may learn a great deal about one another, even if you’ve been married for 25 years. Read more

A tantric massage therapist talking about sex education

How to educate your childern about sex

As a tantric massage therapist, I’m very open about sex and talking about sex. However when it comes to educate my childern, I have to be more careful.

As parents, we have a responsibility to give our children the tools they need to behave responsibly when it comes to sex. Unfortunately, many of us were raised in a culture that treated sex as something shameful or taboo, which can make it difficult to talk openly and honestly with our kids. Read more

Tantra Sex

Tantra Goddesses or Tantric “Sluts”

In recent times, the intersection of sex and spirituality has become a topic of great interest in the yoga world, with media revelations about ritual sex, nude yoga, and “yogasms”. However, amidst this discussion, one group of women has been largely overlooked: the forgotten high priestesses of sex, the “debauched” yoginis of Tantra.

Despite conventional scholarship which has often labeled these women as low-caste “sluts” exploited for ritual purposes, religious scholar Miranda Shaw has uncovered a very different history in her book Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism. According to Shaw, these women were not mere “consorts”, but powerful gurus who were once held “in awe, reverence, and obeisance”. Read more


What is Tao and Taoism

Taoism, an ancient Chinese tradition and religion, stretches back through the sands of time to a bygone era some 1,800 years ago. It was during this time that Master Zhang Taoling (张道陵) of the Eastern Han Dynasty (25-220AD) organized a religious Taoist group, forever altering the cultural, ideological, political, and economic fabric of ancient Chinese society. Yet, despite its historical importance, Taoist thought holds no concern for “God” or any religious tenets.



The literal English translation of the Chinese word Tao (道) is “way” or “path,” embodying the essence of Taoist thought as a journey or exploration of one’s inner self. For many Taoists, the definition of Tao can be extended to mean “method” or “principle,” giving rise to the proliferation of various philosophical and cultural tracts that utilize the term Tao in their titles or descriptions. However, within the Chinese language, the same written character can represent multiple meanings, allowing for a deeper and more nuanced understanding of Taoism. Read more

Improve your life: 6 Ways to Achieve Positive Thinking

Positive thinking has been linked to numerous benefits, including improved mental health, increased resilience, and better physical health. To develop the power of positive thinking, one can start by using positive language. It is important to use words such as “I can,” “I am able,” and “it is possible” when thinking and talking. Additionally, surrounding oneself with positive individuals can create a contagious environment that promotes optimism and success. Read more

hand massage as sensual massage

A Hand massage as alternative

When done with focus and care, hand massage can be a surprisingly good alternative to a full body massage when the situation does not allow it. It can be relaxing, therapeutic or sensual if you wish. Below you will find links and information on how to get the most out of a hand massage. Read more

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The Original Tantra, Part 3

This is the third and the last part of the long article [The Original Tantra] . I have translated his article from Finnish. The article is based on the book Tantra Illuminated by Christoper Wallis.

You can read the 1st part here and the 2nd part here.

In non-dualistic Shaiva tantra, like in the Buddhist tradition, the cause of suffering is considered to be an erroneous view of our own nature. Or can we say that in that view of ourselves we consider all and everything?

You can look at it for a moment: try to create a picture of yourself in your mind. Does it include how you keep your blood running, how you use oxygen to convert nutrients to energy, or how you move your hands by sending signals from your brain through the nerves? Often our picture of ourselves does not include our relationship to our environment, does not include those relations that make our existence possible from moment to moment. Read more