Various Aspects of Tantra

by His Holiness Kyabje Trijang Rinpoche

Translated by Gavin Kilty. Prepared by Michael Lewis.

Printed in From Tushita, edited and published by Michael Hellbach, Tushita Editions, 1977.

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Tantra in the East – origins and today

I came across a “Tantra in India” page online today …. This is more to do with the Tibetan and Hindu spirtual Tantric Paths to enlightenment but I put this page up to give those interested a deeper insight. I see Tantra as a blissful connect of myself with the universe and the world around me. It’s an opportunity to take some time to relax from modern stresses of daily life and be at peace with myself and the world. I found some of the text here amusing as one Tantric path claims to be better than another…perhaps a sign of human egotism that has no place in Tantra at all.

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Sexual continence and Tantric Massage

Why does everyone want to have orgasms?

Because it is very nice? Of course! … But why do we feel exhausted at the end? Because no matter how happy we are during the common act of intercourse with ejaculation, we all become sad and exhausted afterwards


What if instead of living this orgasmic happiness for 1 min
ute we could extend it to 30 minutes or several hours?

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I have a problem keeping an erection. Will tantric massage help?

One day, I received an email from website: I have a problem keeping an erection. Will tantric massage help?

First of all it’s great when men ask questions like this. Too many men suffer in silence with this problem. Unnecessarily. It can be devastating on a man’s feeling of self-worth and wreak havoc on a couple’s sex life. Speaking about it openly is the first step to sorting it out.

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You, Sex and Sexism – the politics of massage

During a fascinating conversation with one of our regular clients about sex and sexism in the massage business, Rob (not his real name) made an interesting observation.
Rob observed that although he thoroughly enjoyed massages from women his best massages had always been from men and he couldn’t understand why it seemed more difficult to find professional, reliable male therapists. Rob added that it wasn’t anything sexual he wanted from his massages. He simply preferred the greater and more sustained pressure men were able to apply during a 60 or 90 minute session.

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What is Tantra about ?

Tantra literally means a tool for expansion. In spite of the Eastern terminology, Tantra is an easy concept to grasp. At it’s heart is the knowledge that a powerful current of energy flows through us all, which needs to be harmonised.

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Tips to convince your partner to try Tantric Massage

Tantric massage may be a bit of a mystery to you, but that is no reason to ignore it. You could be missing out on an amazing experience. But isn’t tantric massage all about sex? Well, no actually. It’s all about developing close relationships with ourselves, our partners and an energy in the universe. Sexual energy is one of the most potent energies that can open gateways to altered consciousness. It’s also a pretty good way to enjoy intimacy with a partner. And you get a massage thrown in for free – bet that got your attention!

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“See an escort or a Tantric masseuse?”

Dear readers, today we invited Mia, a tantric massage goddess from London to talk about a sensitive topic “See an escort or a Tantric masseuse?”

Hi !!

In line with other recent posts I like to bring up a new subject that I guess will start a nice discussion here on the blog.

The question I like to put forward is this: what are the pros and cons of seeing a Tantric masseuse versus seeing an escort? First of all I am very non judgmental. So whatever your reasons are it doesn’t matter to me.

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Is Going for a Tantric Massage Cheating or not?

Hi everybody! I’m honored that Pete from Tantric Massage Guide could offer me this chance to post some of my opinions about tantric massage, as a massage provider. Feel free to ask me questions.

This post will address a difficult and sensitive question. It is an issue that I often come across in my work as a tantric therapist. That is why I have decided to discuss it here in a blog post and ask for your response.

Many of my clients, either regulars or clients who I just see once, are in a relationship. And that leads to the big question: Is going for a tantric massage cheating on your partner or not?

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The Last Tantric Massage

A interesting Article by ARIANNE COHEN, a journalist from the Daily beast. She shared her 1st experience of Tantric yoni massage.. with a man. Please read on:

The Kilted Massage Man is here to make those of you born with a Yoni a very special offer. If you have never had a Yoni Massage I will teach you the art of slow, deep-breathing. Be prepared to take some time.

The ad went on like that for a full page, in perfect grammar, explaining the basics of tantra, the verbiage obviously tweaked to perfection over years on Craigslist. I skimmed quickly and fired off a response. Dear Yoni. Your Craigslist ad caught my eye.

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